Monday, April 26, 2010

Listen up Ladies!

"And every time he does something that tells you he's no good, you ignore it. And every time he comes through and suprises you, he wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that he's not for you." -The Holiday

Speaking from experience I know how easily this can happen. When we love someone so much it's just easier to ignore the signs that say he's no good. Love IS blind, but you can control your sight! If word on the street is he's a bad guy, chances are HE REALLY IS! This is definitely not the case all of the time but if it's coming from more than a few people, don't kid yourself. You can't change anyone that doesn't want to be changed, so unless you go into the relationship with him saying he wants you to change him DONT WASTE YOUR TIME! It's natural for women to be this way because of their nurturing type characteristics, but let's be real, you don't want a "son" for a boyfriend or husband.

So quit staying in relationships that you know aren't going to last or aren't worth the stress they put you through, your wasting precious time you'll never get back. Do it for yourself, you deserve to be happy.

Peace, Love, & Happiness,

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