Communication Difficulties with Someone?

“Communication. It's the first thing we really learn in life. Funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say. Or how to ask for what we really need.” -Meredith Grey, Grey's Anatomy

Do you have trouble communicating to some people in your life? Maybe all of the people in your life or just your significant other? For me I have trouble communicating to some people in my life and then others its really easy to say what feel. Why is that? I think, for me, its because with certain people I'm more comfortable with our relationship so I'm more likely to say exactly what I feel and I don't have to worry that I'm being judged or that I'll lose them because of it. So, I need to work on being more trusting of the people in my life and my relationship with them, this way I will be able to communicate what I really feel and what I need of them, whether it be a helping hand or just a shoulder to cry on.

What do you need to work on so that you are able to communicate your needs and wants? Do you have a problem communicating? If not, what's your secret? Let us know your point of view! Leave me a comment!

Remember always, positive thoughts = positive emotions

Peace, Love, & Happiness

-@HandyQuotes

Miles Apart

“Can miles truly separate you from friends…. If you want to be with someone you love, aren’t you already there?” ~Richard Bach

If you love someone that you can't see everyday whether it be a friend, a partner, or a family member does the physical distance really separate you? If you have love in your heart for someone can that make up for not being able to see them everyday?

Long distance relationships can be difficult for any type of relationship or person. When you aren't able to see someone and be with them constantly you miss that bonding time that you would normally have. But when it really comes down to it, the people you love are right there with you all of the time. The love in your heart for someone can make up for the distance in between the two people. However, that love should be equal from both sides. Its hard to have a relationship without trust much less a long distance relationship without trust. Whats the point if you are worried about what the other is doing, or if they even love you at all or if its just a show. Trust is very important in relationships and without it, it's destined for bad karma!

The point is, with love its easier to be apart from one another. Its easier because you know that the other person is somewhere loving you just as much. If distance is an issue in a relationship that you are involved with, reevaluate what the problem really is and find a solution together. If you can't identify the problem, how will you come to a solution?

Always remember, positive thoughts = positive emotions

Peace, Love, and Happiness

-@HandyQuotes